There are certain seasons in life that take your breath away.
Being the mother of the bride, especially for the first time, was that for me.

Looking back on my daughter’s wedding, I’m filled with joy, pride, and gratitude. Every detail reflected her vision, her heart, and her thoughtfulness. From start to finish, she planned a day (and weekend!) that delighted everyone lucky enough to attend.

The Bridal Shower Surprise

Let’s start with the bridal shower.
When my daughter suggested a “cocktail party themed” shower, I’ll admit, I was surprised. It wasn’t the typical brunch or luncheon… and it turned out to be perfect.

We transformed the space into a mock cocktail lounge, giving guests a chance to mix, mingle, and truly connect. My family, the groom’s family, old friends, new friends and it felt more like a celebration than a structured event. We had light games, a party planner to help things run smoothly, and one of my favorite decisions: the DJ played background music that set the tone without overpowering the conversations. It kept the vibe relaxed and warm. I highly recommend it!

And yes, gifts arrived before the shower. Some people loved the convenience; others felt unsure. Personally, I found it a little impersonal at first. But as someone who creates custom gifts for a living, I can tell you this: personalized gifts go a long way in making the moment feel heartfelt, no matter when or how they’re given. My daughter received everything from monogrammed glassware to a beautifully made personalized trunk from Petite Keep—and of course, a few sentimental items I created just for her from our shop.

    

The Welcome Party (A.K.A. “Rehearsal Dinner...?”)

The night before the wedding, we hosted what was technically the rehearsal dinner… though no rehearsing actually took place!
Following dinner, we kicked off a Welcome Party at a nearby winery for all the guests who arrived early. It was magical!  An evening under the stars, surrounded by friends and family from near and far. Everyone was relaxed and excited, and it was the perfect lead-in to the big day. Again, it gave people the opportunity to really connect and enjoy each other, which is what makes these gatherings so meaningful.

 

The Wedding Day

And then… the wedding.
Held at a venue designed to feel like a winery, the setting was breathtaking, even after a morning of rain. Thankfully, the skies cleared just in time for the ceremony and reception. It was as if the weather was on her side.

The day was full of thoughtful touches, from the stunning decor to the food and drink to the bride-approved DJ who focused on her vision rather than his own performance (brides, take note!). There were so many little moments woven into the day that made it truly theirs.

Before the ceremony, we had the “getting ready” time. This is one of my favorite memories.
All the women; me, the Mother of the Groom, the bridesmaids, and of course the bride together in one room, sipping coffee, laughing, getting excited. It was a joyful energy I’ll never forget.

We proudly wore our embroidered MOB and MOG caps, which were a fun conversation starter and a sweet way to mark our place in this special day. And then… the reveals. First to her dad and brother, cue the (happy) tear.  Then the emotional first look with her groom. To witness those moments as a mom is something I’ll treasure forever.

The ceremony and reception reflected the couple’s unique style. Today’s weddings really are “à la carte”.  You start with a beautiful space, and with the help of a planner (or a vision and a little hustle), you make it completely your own. It’s freeing, and personal, and allows for so many meaningful moments to shine.

    

The Details That Matter

Here’s what stood out the most to me: the quiet, intentional gestures.

• Presenting hankies to the groom’s grandparents and mom, and to my husband, the bride’s father
• A bouquet dedication from the bride to me
• Thoughtful dances between the groom and his mom, and the bride and her dad

These moments were heartfelt and unforgettable—and so easy to create if you plan for them.

My Advice to Other Mothers of the Bride

If you’re reading this and you’re about to walk this path, here’s what I want you to know:

• Stay present. The to-do list will be there. The weather will do what it wants. But the people? The love? That’s what you’ll remember.
• Acknowledge the important people. Whether it’s a quiet thank-you, a dance, or a small personalized token, these gestures go a long way.
• Add meaning with personalization. Whether you’re giving a gift or planning a moment, adding custom details makes everything feel intentional and unforgettable.

This is where we at Wicked Stitches love to help. From custom embroidered shirts and hats to wedding dress labels, we specialize in stitching joy into every detail and sending it off beautifully wrapped, so all you have to do is show up (or not!) and smile.

Here’s to all the mothers helping their daughters feel celebrated, supported, and surrounded by love.

You’ve got this, and we’re always here to help.

A few images from her journey....from the Bridal Shower thru the Wedding.  Truly memorable events in our lives.